viernes, 4 de abril de 2008

Life's little ironies

In one week, one of the strangest weeks of my life will--or rather, should--be over.

1. On Friday I must fly to Nashville for the court hearing regarding this lawsuit and finally, hopefully, put this all behind me. I am being charged with negligence by the insurance company behind the mask of the individual who went out with my car when we spun out and flipped when we were forced off the road by a "phantom vehicle" that fled the scene. My car never hit hers; she swerved to miss me and she is suing for damages to her Bronco. Her basis is negligence. All three witnesses have been found and subpoenaed to court for next Friday, and all three state that she has no case and that I did the only thing I could in the situation to avoid being hit into oncoming traffic (coming at us at least at 65 mph) and keep my family alive. It is difficult to not take this personally because it is personal; her insurance company is making her sue me (whether or not she wants to) because they feel my decision-making was erroneous.

I have to fly through Detroit to get to Nashville. I wonder what will happen if 1. flights are delayed and I don't arrive on time, or 2. flights are cancelled and I don't get there at all and am stuck instead in Detroit. Why I wasn't purchased a direct flight from my very-major local international airport is only cost--and since my insurance company so strongly believes that I am going to be saving them over $20,000.00 in not having to pay out liability with my testimony, you would think that they would go ahead and spring for a direct-flight ticket that would guarantee my arrival, no matter what the cost.

But no...that is too easy.

2. I have a new night class that starts on Wednesday night. That will be fun, and I have the texts printed and ready to go. One less task to have to complete this weekend!

3. While having my judgment put on trial on Friday, I am being honored by my Town Mayor on Tuesday night.

I was one of a handful of individuals in my Town to be nominated by a Town Council member for a Mayorial Award for Outstanding Volunteerism.

Sounds impressive, ¿no?

All it comes from was putting into action the dream of the PTA President at La Princesita's elementary school by forming a recycling committee and starting a full-blown recycling program at that school, the first of its kind in the Town's public schools. Whereas before only paper was recycled, we have now started recycling cans and plastic, and just this week batteries. I publish a Recycling Tip of the Week in the school newsletter, the PTA newsletter and in over the school's morning "news program" which is broadcast by the upper-classes to all the students of the school in order to edcuate the entire school community about all the different things we can do every day to use less or recycle that which we have finished using. We also formed a neighborhood clean-up and this year will formally join in the Town's Clean-Up Day in November as a school team.

But I'm a native Oregonian. That is what we do. Recycle. Take care of our Mother. It's not anything that out of the ordinary--it is just who I am, it's in my blood. The real hero is the PTA President/Goddess. She is an amazing woman. She is, likewise, to be honored that night.

Funny, how in four days' time next week I am to be both richly honored for the integrity of my decisions and on trial for supposed negligence in my decisions.

10 comentarios:

  1. Good luck on your flight and in court.

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  2. Life has a funny way of slapping us in the ass now doesn't it ? Well done you on the community projects. Give'm hell in court.

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  3. Hi Z: You know I'll keep you posted. I am bringing my laptop in case I do get stuck...at least that way I have something to do! :)

    Hi Brad: That is soooo true, and slapped a few good times at that. I'm actually hoping not to even have to open my mouth and let witness reports carry the case, but we shall see. Of course, if my flights don't come through, then that could happen...

    Thank you, sir!

    Be well, you two.

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  4. Irony it is...with a capitol I for sure. I am really shocked that they are actually making you appear. And yes, I know the feeling about it "not being personal"...but its just so hard not to take it that way...after all they are attacking your integrity. Well, I'm sure that things will work out just fine...just too bad you have to go to all this trouble....and relive a traumatic experience. BTW, when you are in Detroit, you will be approx. 38 miles from me...give or take...depending on which Detroit Airport you are in. Probably the one in Romulus. I think thats the biggest.
    I have tagged you for a small meme. Hope you don't mind. Details are on my blog.
    Hugs, Val

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  5. Shucks. Too bad we can't meet up for lunch, Val. But hey, if I end up stuck for some reason....check your blog for a shout out and come rescue me! Dinner's on me!! ;)

    Be well, Val.

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  6. Shucks, Windy...

    Not yet. Just you wait.

    You ain't seen nuthin' yet.

    :)

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  7. An honor well deserved. Someone has to step up and take the first step so that the rest of us have someone to follow.

    On the other front, you know I would be there holding your hand if I could.

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  8. You are an awesome wonder-working tornado in your own wee way, aren't you?! I am glad your 'good works' are being acknowledged. :)
    I will certainly be thinking of you on Friday (I guess it'll be our Saturday ...)

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  9. Ah, She-ra. So much for trying to be "behind the scenes"...remember my words? And there are so many others who give so much more of themselves and their time, really...like present company...

    I know you would be there. You can come with me to the piercing studio afterwards instead. How does Saturday sound? :) We should get Queen L involved and make it another girls' night out.

    Hope you all are feeling better.

    Chief, thank you. All I did was take up a project that nobody really wanted to step up and do, but that the PTA Pres wanted to get started. Like I said above, I wanted to be involved in my daughter's school in a low-level way. Funny, the turns Life takes.

    I'll be good Friday. I'll be strong. It'll be so good to get it over with. You've been with me since the beginning of the entire ordeal. I'll let you know how it all turns out, promise.

    Be well, you two.

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